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coz mel-tagged-me...

Just like chain letters, i never knew the birth process of memes and tags. and sometimes i do ponder on it...i never pondered long enough to figure out. i mean, did someone just suddenly decided to start it and see how far it'd go?

surprisingly...someone did. and i didnt even have to ponder for hours because that someone happened to be a friend of mine. and yes she started a meme. how does the name meme even come about anyway?? *frowns and looks up diagonally to nothingness*

anyway...because i'm literally stuck at my expectancy thoery of motivation assignment...i decided to do this....

or just coz mel-tagged-me.

My earliest memory is...
of me running out of my parents room bawling and sobbing because i just had my first nightmare. there was a Frankenstein. and Freddy Kruger. I blame my dad for allowing me to watch it.

At school I...
was a friggin' socialite! okay...maybe not exactly. but i had a lot of friends, and i joined a lot of clubs...but i stuck to school rules well coz mummy was a teacher in school...

My first relationship was...
only a month long....pretty disastrous....but memorable anyway....

I wish I'd never worn...
frocks and dresses when i was a kid...coz my mum spent a lot on them and i grew tired of them very very quickly.

My mother and father always told me...
to eat curry n chilli. yea...i don't do so well with spices.

I wish I had...
a sister...or sisters...:) oh and gone into artistic gymnastics.

I wish I hadn't...
cut my hair!!

At home I cook...
nothing? hehe...i'm more of a baker too, mel. :) especially cheese tarts and cheese cakes. :)

When I was a child, I wanted to...
have a Genie/Fairy Godmother grant me 3 wishes. My first wish then was to have my big brother turned into a girl. That way i could have a sister. :) I don't want to now. My brothers are cool!

The book that changed my life is...
Fearless by Franscine Pascal? hehe...not exactly a life changing thing...but yea...love that book. :)

It's not fashionable but...
I enjoy dissing prissy girls. for some reason...i cant stand them. even more so if their boyfriends do God darn everything for them.

If only I could...
run again....:(

Friends say I am...
sporty. and uptight. and crazy. and dark (as in literally, not in a morbid, gothic kinda way).

What I don't find amusing is...
bachelor of commerce.

I often wonder...
how blue blacks and scratches seem to appear all over my body. oh and how my future life would be like. :)

and i tagggggggg???

1. Ju...as always. coz she's the best. :)
2. Kenneth khaw....coz i just came from his site.
3. Weng Lum...i think he'd enjoy this.
4. Bec...coz her site needs and update..urgently....:)
5. Carboman? coz i wonder if grown ups with families would do this...
6. Lifemou...same reason...:)

ha! there u have it!

now...Vroom said that the expectancy theory of motivation clearly states that....

front seat view

so my long planned mamak session finally got carried out. although only half of the people showed up. wait...actually it was just ju, soon seng and moi. and since ju and i are kinda the hostesses, soon seng was our only guest...thus only one person showed. how sad is that? haha...

but it was good catching up with my monitor/ju's president. better in small groups, i always say. more catching up is done. and this fella comes home once in 2 weeks! life must be that fun in Notts.

it was a casual mamak session at Rafi's. That was until the whole drama started...

Someone's purse got snatched!!! omg! there was screaming...lots of screaming...and struggling...and pushing and pulling (there was a hero involved).....and loads of people running...all within 3 feet away from where i was sitting!!!

the whole incident was pretty scary...but here was what traumatised me the most...that motorbike actually went passed me before hitting its victim! it could've been me~!! seriously, i had my handbag on my lap, which can be easily snatched...



well...thank God the girl was unhurt...the hero was...undoubtly a hero...and the thief was caught! The police came about 10 minutes after. I urged ju and soon seng to go home.

yup...i shall never carry a handbag to go mamak from now on. Or if i'm walking by a sidewalk accessible to motorcyclists....

if only i could...

i've just spent a good 17 minutes tuning out the music on my mp3 and bawling at Jolene's romantic love story.

can i say jealous???

i think it's so so darn sweet. thanks to you, Jolene, i'm now in no mood to listen to my usual hip hop beats, blog about the incredibly fun outing i had with a couple of my girlfriends just now, and even talk to the people on msn. yes, its blinking orange at the bottom there and i have no intention of replying them. see what you've done!

i feel so...deprived....of sweet caresses, unforgettable moments, tingling sensations, shy and awkward times, longingness, utter loneliness, sheer ecstasy and many more of those...

Jolene's so lucky. alongside others like Julie, Shirlyn, Yuh Huey, Gene, Li Hua, Grace, Mei Yen....

Aunt Karen

Aunt Karen is who i am right now!

At about 11.50 am, my cousin Melvyn and wife, Sylvia, gave birth to Master Tan Yu En. I've been waiting anxiously for this moment! [not to be an aunt but to have a baby to play with] I love babies and kids! Well, actually babies are a bit hard to play with but once they turn 7-8 months plus, when they're able to laugh and grab hold of my finger and stuff like that...adorable!

soo...the new proud mummy and daddy and baby are now in Singapore. Coz...thats where they live. thus, i cant go see them now. But i will the moment i have a break! yes yes!!

Baby Yu En, I'm gonna be your favourite Aunt! *grins*

I like GUYS!

someone asked me today if i was straight. Yes, someone did.

i know i'm on the tom-boyish side. i never wore make up till late last year. i never wore skirts till last last year. and i cant wear heels. i dont mind the sun and the dirt. i love camping out in the wild. i eat a lot. i'm not very neat in my work. i complain about my weight but i never do anything about it. i never read fashion magazines. i play all sorts of sports and i'm not afraid to sweat. i love rollercoasters. i dont mind playing with worms and beetles. i'm into breakdancing. i have a need for speed. and yes...i have short hair.

but i also love to shop. and i paint my nails when i'm free. and im a sucker for romantic movies. and i recently adopted the habit of baking and putting on little make up. i need to have good shampoos and conditioners because my hair's no better than a lion's mane. soft teddy bears, huggable size, are my weakness. chocolate melts me. i love earrings. and yes, i camwhore.:)

most importantly, i like guys. so for any more of you who are in doubt, NO i'm not gay. i've dated before, all guys. i crush on Brad Pitt, not Angelina Jolie.

note:for those who have the affinity for the same sex, i am not against you. i just know that i'm straight and would like people to know that too. :)